sanctimony.

if there's anything i find hard to fathom in humanity is their need to assert self-righteous pride, often side-stepping issues and even turning something completely unrelated on you. when i'm pointing out a disappointment in one's lack of effort in friendship, it's not meant as a challenge to an argument. it is a mere observation.

why can't they just take that and not turn it around to pick on you for living life wrong. i mean come on, i never claimed to be a moral authority in the first place. for me friendship is simply about delivering on your offers to help, not half-hearted displays of concern through texts. if you're genuinely concerned about someone, you'd actually do something, not pay lip service.

anyway it's pointless trying to rationalise with people who're obnoxious about their goodness. i'm just saddened that it's come to this. or perhaps it always was but we chose to overlook it in our attempt then to make things work.

i'm disinterested in any case. someday perhaps they will get it. i won't be around to care any more.