convos with jill.

so i've been sending and fetching jill to her remedials and i guess the best part is the amusing exchanges. she's such a good listener and processes rather quickly. yesterday i mentioned that i dreamt about how the both of them chose not to marry but stay together and she actually said it was a good thing because she gets on so well with her sister.this came after she told me how she replied to her angsty sis' text about how she was a 'failure at making muffins' by simply saying 'what happened now'. she explained it was how she always replies because by showing empathy it'd only make jo indulge in more self-loathing.haha how fine-tuned.she explained this is what she's learnt about her sister since kindergarten haha.

i guess i'm just comforted by their natural chemistry.it's as chris once acutely observed, the are meant to be sisters. this helps me ease the guilt/fear of their future by heaps because i know i can leave with them well enough  to take care of each other in this home.even as teens they will thrive in this partnership because their symbiosis has been honed to an ideal balance of give and take. just as jo in her low self-worth feeds off her sister's quiet comfort, jill knows jo always has her back even in simple tasks like frying her an omelette for lunch, only because she wanted to. i just love they way they love. it's the most precious thing to take to the grave.

best reward to them to date

baking with love

jil's sims is like a flashfwd of her future self haha