conundrum.

i really regret telling the kids. jill texts me daily about my condition and from the way she says, 'just take care of yourself ok.hugg' i know she's putting up a front of light-hearted concern. so i replied this morning that i just want her to focus and do well in her psle. this is the very reason i didn't wish to disclose. i want them to get on with their lives and thrive.sigh.and every weekend it's a facade of brush-off nonchalance.i just wish they could remain self-absorbed teens sometimes.